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Salary Negotiation Playbook
Research your number before the offer arrives
Negotiating well starts before you're in the room. Know your realistic range using actual data: recent postings for the same role and level, conversations with people in similar roles, and salary aggregator sites for your specific city and industry. A number you can defend with a source is far stronger than a number that just feels right.
Let them name a number first
Whoever states a number first gives away information. If asked your expectation early, redirect: "I'd like to learn more about the role and scope before landing on a number. What range did you have in mind for this position?" This isn't a trick. It's standard practice, and most interviewers expect the question.
Scripts for common scenarios
When the offer is below your range: "Thank you for the offer, I'm genuinely excited about the role. Based on my research and experience, I was expecting something closer to [number]. Is there flexibility here?"
When they ask for your current salary: In many places you can decline to share this, and it's increasingly normal to do so: "I'd rather focus on the value I'd bring to this specific role and align on a fair number for it."
When they give a "final" number: Ask directly whether there's room to revisit non-salary terms, like start date, signing bonus, or review timeline, before accepting or declining outright.
Negotiating beyond base salary
If base pay genuinely can't move, other levers often can: signing bonus, an earlier performance review date (which can accelerate your next raise), additional paid leave, remote or hybrid flexibility, or a specific title change that matters for your next move. Know which of these actually matters to you before the conversation, so you're not negotiating for something you don't want.
When to walk away
If the final number is meaningfully below your minimum and none of the other levers close the gap, it's fair to decline, clearly and without burning the relationship: "I appreciate the offer and the time you've invested, but this doesn't work for me at this number. I'd love to stay in touch for future opportunities." Companies remember candidates who decline gracefully.
What not to do
- Don't lie about a competing offer you don't have. It's easy to get caught, and it damages trust immediately if you are.
- Don't negotiate over email when a short call would be clearer. Tone is easy to misread in text.
- Don't accept on the spot under pressure. "I'd like a day to review the full offer" is a completely normal, expected request.
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